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In hopes of finding an IM client on which cams and file transfers and stuff work, and on the urging of a pal of mine equipped thusly, I've bitten the bullet and installed MSN messenger.
If you wish to look at grainy video and swap binaries, hit me at r_t_f@hotmail.com !
I think you can do all that on Yahoo! Messenger.
I hate Yahoo.